Anonymous said: different anon here also wanted to weigh in and say that you + we + the internet should not be talking about the specifics of your sex life with an ex but i guess we are. i guess i was confused and a lot of my being upset and angry came from the fact that it sounded like he forced himself on you and on rosi. did he force himself on your or did you two have a relationship that did not include sex until you were 18? if you consented to everything, then why is this an issue?
Again, people under 18 are legally incapable of giving consent in this state. There’s your answer.
Jesus christ the guy was 25 and hitting on 16 year olds regularly preying on their vulnerabilities and using that as a tool of manipulation AND CONTINUED THAT WITH VERY YOUNG WOMEN EVEN AS HE GOT OLDER why is this conversation even happening as though he did anything even vaguely okay??!??
Next week it will be three years since my dad died and I’m pretty fucking sad. This Saturday marks three years since I got the phone call about the first stroke. It’s all still in the way of things, sometimes. It’s all still very complicated, always. I feel very young when I remember that my dad is gone. You can Dumbledore all you want, the ones who love us do leave us. In a lot of ways we left each other before he even died. But I guess generally it doesn’t help that I feel really lonely right now and then I remember my dad is dead and even though a lot of stuff is really good, a lot of shit is really complicated, and it’s all still in the way.
at first i was like: dude, how big is your cat?!